Jeff O'Handley

The Doubting Writer Finds His Voice

And Here We Are Again

Stop me if you’ve heard this one before. A man holds a position of great power and influence. He’s at the top of his field, the top of his company. He rubs shoulders with the rich and famous and influential. He is rich and famous and influential. With a word, he can make or break careers.

And he is a sexual predator.

This week, it’s Harvey Weinstein’s turn in the spotlight. Last year, it was Donald Trump’s. Before that, it was Bill Cosby’s. The list is long and it stretches back forever, and I can tell you this: in the coming weeks, Hollywood will almost certainly be rocked by reveals of other predators amongst their ranks. Producers, directors, stars, casting directors: I expect we’re going to be hearing a lot about men who have been using their power to make women miserable (yes, there are tales of men being harassed, too, and that is terrible, but the board is tilted far the other way).

The question is, “What causes this?” What causes a man to decide that it’s okay to greet a woman in a hotel room while wearing nothing but a bathrobe, or demanding she watch him shower, or masturbate in front of her? What makes a man think it’s okay to make what is essentially a job interview into a quid pro quo, I’ll give you this job if you give me that job kind of thing? Are these men–the Harvey Weinsteins and Donald Trumps and Bill Clintons and Cosbys and Louis Mayers of the world time bombs of predation that will go off sooner or later, regardless of where they are and what they do, or are they products of power, corrupted by knowing they have so much control over another person’s destiny?

The good news–in as much as there can be good news in all of this–is that women are becoming emboldened, are starting to speak out. Now we have to figure out a way to stop this from happening in the first place.

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